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Derik Fay @[email protected]

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Official Account of Derik Fay Founder and CEO of @3fmanageme


How you act in the face of challenges often determines where you land in the future. Every time you say What if ā€œnegativeā€ā€¦ā€¦always follow it up with What if ā€œpositiveā€ā€¦. Great clip from my sit down with @thedeterminedsociety jump over and check out the entire pod!šŸŽ™ļø REAL brothers are rare..They count your wins as their own and they speak up for you in your absence. We’re not picking weeds…we’re planting trees! 🌳 It’s not mistakes that crumble companies…it’s their unwillingness to face them that does the damage. You don’t get to skip difficult…. But you do get to choose which difficult! Are you focusing on what feels urgent or what’s actually important? Stop squeezing the blade that’s only there to cut you…. My sit down with ​⁠@THEREALBRADLEA is hilarious this way! 😜 As a kid, the first part is easy for most. Too many loose that part of us who dream as we age. Earning money is the easy part… keeping it- that’s the hard part! It comes down to your children seeing you have the courage to try. Look at the 99% odds of failing and laugh- and find nothing but possibilities in the 1%! If you like the BS buy it! But let’s not pretend it makes us any better than someone who doesn’t! Just….keep…….Moving! Do you know any men who have become trapped in this? Have you? I did once….. Regret is trying to turn a page that no longer exists… Every desire accomplished immediately unlocks a newer, bigger desire. What is your goal? The rules aren’t real…. YOU can just do the things you are hesitant to do. If your hurting people…. as convenient as it may be for you - it’s unacceptable. Don’t waste time arguing with someone who only desires the validation of being ā€œrightā€. Most women don’t respond to what they say they want.. So we give them what we see them respond to…. There’s always someone bigger and faster than you! What’s your competitive advantage? If you do what everyone does- you’ll get what everyone gets. Are you just trying to get something- or are you tying to become something. Look at YOUR list! You are so much stronger than you give yourself credit for. You have no right to stand on your wins if you’re not willing to stand in front of your losses. The cost of what we buy is driven far more by the social cues assigned to it than the actual value. Work smart not hard is a beautiful lie…. Do you agree? When two business partners always agree one of them is unnecessary. Do you agree? You can change NOW for what you want, or allow change to take what you already have. Don’t talks Sh$t about people to me - it changes my opinion about you NOT them! What code are you living by? What was given, or what best serves you? The worst thing that happened to you is often your first instinct as a parent…. Read that again… If you want to impact people in your life you must first start with yourself… Want success? Work hard - leverage harder! Don’t believe the lies… anyone worth admiring worked INCREDIBLY HARD for a VERY long time. PERIOD! The seeds of growth are not always found in addition- they are often found in subtraction. Are you willing to be brave enough to try and be the best version of yourself!? Are you showing your kids the best version of you - or just talking about it? 🧐 Leave a past that tells your story so profoundly that your future has already been written! If the next 1,000 days were the same as yesterday would you be closer to your goals? Every challenge unlocks another door closer to your goals. No matter how you feel…..Just do it anyways….. What would you choose? $50k now or $50k/ year? Someone doesn’t need to have a million followers to have life changing advice or perspective! Where do your beliefs originate? Are you sure they are even your own?