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Iād say this advice is just as valid for avoidance in general. I donāt think I am avoidantly-attached but I do have avoidance as my coping skill. Avoiding meeting people due to anxiety, avoiding making art because I have fear of failure and perfectionismā¦. Avoiding confrontation with people. Etc. Itās good advice to think about my thought process.
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Potentially they latch on to the myth of āthe oneā person who will be perfect and that person doesnāt exist. You have to be a good roommate match, sexual match and be on the same page with kids. If you have all those things and still arenāt content then itās definitely about you not being accepting of who your partner is and what they enjoy in life. It may be different from you, but that doesnāt mean you canāt make it work if youāre accepting of them.
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The avoidant: "We're just incompatible." So they leave you. But once you start healing and moving on, looking forward to dating again, the avoidant returns.... They didn't want you bc you forced them to look at themselves; now they want you because the grass wasn't greener on the other side š
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Wow...... this is all why my partner just broke up with me. Gave non-specific and flat-out untrue reasons but made it seem logical. Never advanced the relationship and when I asked about the next step (moving in) he said we can't bc I'm so different from him and so we actually have to break up bc he can't wait for the day that he might feel like he's ready to...... INTERESTING LOL but not very helpful bc he's not willing to work on it bc he's "running out of time"
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I'm avoidant just because there's too many factors on my end and for potential partners that just turn me away from wanting to find a girlfriend. It just doesn't feel worth it. Ideally, I would like a girlfriend and have my own family, but at the same time, there is too much risk in the short and long run that it's probably best not to bother.
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@maeveszy
1 week ago
Thatās me to a T. When I dig deeper I canāt find a reason for not wanting to commit whether itās in relationships or my job. I feel stuck in the fear of becoming tied down by progress that requires effort to keep.
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