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Our Healthy Gamer Coaches have transformed over 10,000 lives. Be the next success story: bit.ly/3yK93vH
Dr. Kās Guide to Mental Health explores Anxiety, Depression, ADHD, and Meditation with 150+ video chapters in a Final Fantasy-inspired skilltree.
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There needs to be more awareness about self-fulfilling prophecies. Thank you Dr. K
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I do love how clear and simple you are make such complex subjects. And the level of empathy and humanity you show is amazing
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I met the prettiest woman ever that literally just wanted me to hang out with her. And I seem to not know how to even do it and than she moved away. It hurt watching her leave. But it's nice knowing such a lovely woman actually just wanted to simply hang out and nothing more. I seemed to be the one that was foreign to what she offered
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I've always wondered how people go so easily from a few specific men or women they had bad experiences with, or even a bunch of people on social media, to an entire gender. A lot of times these people have legitimate grievances, but then they take it way too far
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I think this is partly because of how selfish and consumption/status/goal orientated most people have become in society that is very much now geared to impulse and coping mechanisms (for corporate profit). We're constantly being told to no settle, to not tolerate bad behaviour, and to pursue what we truly want/need, to the point most people are more impatient, intolerant and cynical than we used to be.
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Hey, you guys used to have a link to the full video in these shorts but I havenāt seen them lately! Those links are super helpful.
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That's why I always say, the key is to view women as humans because most men actually don't do that and don't even realize it.
Just look at them as if they were just another dude. Would you hang out with that person? Do you even have common interests? If she wasn't "hot" would you even care about her? Because if you have healthy friendships with other dudes, you couldn't care less about how attractive they are.
In the end, that's all that'll stay. Attractiveness fades anyway. What is it you're left with? Would it be worth spending the rest of your life with that person?
Once you realize this, you won't even feel bad if a woman ignores you or makes it clear she doesn't want anything to do with you. You wouldn't want anything to do with a guy that acted like this towards you either.
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That's a great point.
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This makes tremendous sense and can really relate to these experiences
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by transactional, i was expecting you to mean "i pour my heart out and love this person through sickness and health and expose my vulnerabilities and can rely on them, and expect the same from them"
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I don't know the larger context of this clip, but, if we are really only talking about ONE negative experience, you really shouldn't draw any negative generalizations about yourself from that, either. I feel like so many guys get rejected or stood up or played a single time at a young age, and they then create all these sweeping generalizations in their head from that one experience about not only women and relationships, but also themselves and their own worth and attractiveness etc. And the worse you feel about yourself, the more susceptible you are to falling prey to redpill ideology and grifters.
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News flash: all relationships are transactional. The best relationships are ones where the transaction is practically invisible.
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I definitely wouldnāt describe myself as redpilled, I donāt really view relationships as transactional, but I feel my biggest personal hurdle with women has been their views on masculinity. Maybe itās just the environments Iāve been in but I would say that the vast majority Iāve encountered have a very rigid view of how a man is āsupposed to beā, and they are easily turned off by men outside of that norm. I feel like more men gravitate towards redpill not because of what youāre describing, but because of unrealistic expectations put on them by women, including family and friends.
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I think relationships ARE transactional but not in the way that some people think. If I give someone my time, attention respect, commitment, and love, then I expect the same. I think highly of my partner and am loyal to them, so I expect the same. If I communicate my concerns and take your opinions seriously then I expect the same too.
I think a lot of those āred pillā guys just donāt see or understand the value these things because they canāt be measured or counted.
As a woman Iāve been in multiple relationships where the guy Iām with just doesnāt put in as much effort as I do into the relationship, and oftentimes I end up doing most of the emotional labor, which is exhausting.
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Meaningful relationships. Relationships start somewhere, usually by an attraction towards an attribute or behavior. When does a relationship become meaningful? Both parties are united in commonality, pushing towards a fabric of goals each set by themselves. Meaningful?Intentional authentic communication. Providing presence when necessary, assistance by providing questions. Commonality in the pursuance of learning and describing.
Itās nice to write š Even if itās an oblivious or nonsensical insight
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As a 37-year-old man with 1 divorce and only 1 other serious relationship that failed, I have given up on dating or finding a partner. Not because I think that "all women" are anything. It is because every woman, who has expressed interest in me and in whom I had interest, put me in a roster of men they were seeing/dating/being sexual with. And I can't take it anymore. I stopped trying to date for my emotional and mental health, because it was leading me to suicidal depression and extreme neglect. Healthy women do not show me any interest, and I'm not mad at them for that; they have every right to not be attracted to me. But after years of this, I now regard any woman who is interested in me with total suspicion. I genuinely wanted to be loved and to love. I wanted a partner to build a life together with and enjoy it with her, but it's just not going to happen apparently, and I can't afford to pretend like it is anymore.
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If relationship isn't meant to be transactional, then what's the point?
Like, I'll do the thing she expects me to, whether it's a gift, a chore or just listen to her day, but I'm allowed to expect the same from her.
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Damn Dr K! Youāre based as hell! š
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Beautiful. šš»
I don't even know how can anyone put up with others obnoxiously demanding stuff like "when ygonna give that to me, huh! huh!", shouldn't anyone be able to even hold peaceful, polite and considerate conversations?.. personally i just šš»āāļøāā”ļøyyyyikes.
It's like everyone wants to live in their own y2k cheesy drama: "i'm such a bad boy/girl and i became this way because of x and they're to blame (but still secretly waiting for that perfect person who will prove me wrong and i know it's coming because every drama plot says so)". Too much tv gave this subconscious illusion that someone is always coming to save you from "your old ways no matter what you did"... and even the most acid redpilled never even notice themselves craving for their cheesy drama sav
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@Purplethingyt
1 week ago
Yup, pretty much. A person (regardless of gender) looking for something meaningful in life, will feel like they are just wasting their time with a transactional person, and often I find, tends to have a strong hatred of people like this, so it makes sense why they wouldn't be seen anywhere near them. This extends to their friendships and family life, too. They don't want to be friends with or around family that view life as transactional, so having a transactional mindset in the first place as an adult is 100% screwing you over, and you need to fix that if you realize that you have one.
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